"What if I'm wrong?"
--> A question I like, especially on very touchy and personal issues.
Your first thought will probably be to say, "Well, it'd be a good thing to do anyways!" ... because that's just what people tend to do when considering being wrong.
But dig a little deeper. What if you were really wrong? Like, not just the wrong course of action, but what if your whole idea of the setup and cause and effect and payoffs and long term consequences of your actions were flawed? What if you made a serious mistake somewhere in your evaluations, and you were going to get the opposite result of what you wanted? What if you got a horrific result?
History is obvious in retrospect, but sometimes it's also obvious going forwards. If Pol Pot had stopped and asked, "Hey, what if I'm wrong and it's actually a bad idea to kill everyone who speaks a foreign language, runs a business, is educated, or has a background as an urban professional? What if I'd be permanently destroying Khmer society instead of delivering it?"
More importantly - what if French intellectuals had asked the same question in Paris. "Hmm, perhaps this Monsier Pol Pot is not such a good guy? What if we are wrong in this one?"
So, ask what if you're wrong. And seriously consider it. What if you're really wrong in your political positions? In your religious devotions? In your daily habits? In how you treat (or don't treat) people? What if you've got it backwards?
What if cracking down on crime caused a lot more crime? What if treating criminals compassionately made them more likely to go completely insane, have worse lives themselves, and ruin others' lives in the process?
What if your safe job is actually a trap?
What if your favorite food is making you fat and diabetic and killing you?
What if you're slowly killing the person you're trying to save? What if they're slowly killing you?
What if getting your preferred politics turned your society and culture into an apocalyptic wasteland?
What if your favorite leisure activity is wrecking your mind, making you stupid, and holding you back from heights you can't even imagine from where you're at?
What if being "ultra-hardcore" at the gym is likely to cause injury and destroy your strength, flexibility, and health? What if resting more actually produced larger, safer gains?
What if working less meant more production? What if working more meant better quality of relaxation and more quality of life? What if pursuing less status made people like you more? What if not shunning status let you actually accomplish meaningful and important things?
What if you're wrong?
Don't ask it too often. Second guessing too much will make you go crazy. But occasionally, really honestly...
What if you're wrong?
Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn left behind several uncollected short stories, one of which
I just finished reading "Being Wrong" from Kathrin Schulz. It explains why we are wrong, how we are wrong, and it shows why we have to be wrong and what good comes out of it.
Here is a TED talk at which she presents the main ideas of the book : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QleRgTBMX88&feature=feedlik
The book is fun and enlightening! She's even able to quote Socrates and Beyoncé in the same sentence...
For every belief X ask yourself:
"If X is false, what should I observe?"
"If X is true, what should I observe?"
"What do I observe?"
I draw the line at the point where I feel that asking that question once more will make me never ask the question again. In other words, if I notice that I need to eat, drink or sleep then I stop asking the question because otherwise I won't be able to ask it anymore. This also counts for pleasure and leisure, if I feel unhappy about not being able to play that new game then I am going to play it until I am satisfied. If I don't do it, if I don't play the game or watch that movie and continue asking myself if it is worth it, if it might be the wrong choice, then my unhappiness might turn into depression which in turn will make me reluctant or unable to ask that question anymore.
Becoming less wrong is just one of your preferences and needs, as a human being you also need to acknowledge and account for your other preferences and needs.
Everyone is going crazy for social stuff online. I think it's really good stuff, and there's lots of room to grow in it, and there'll be more successes and more adoption of current stuff.
However, I think the real winners are building something entirely differently right now. They're building for whatever gets hot after social.
Normally if you read an article like this, they'd make some predictions, most of which would turn out to be wrong. I won't do that. Instead, I'll point you to one of the more interesting industries to look at for this sort of thing - mobile phones.
Phones were interesting for me because I was traveling a lot, and I got to see the sort of phones that were popular in Japan when the Motorola Razr was the hottest phone in the United States.
The Japanese phones were three times larger and much clunkier, but had a lot of features. The Razr was stripped down - it did calls, texts, and that's pretty much it. And it had bad battery life.
I had the good fortune to interview Benjy Wertheimer at Bhaktifest, 2011. I was really interested in his prison work, and so I asked to talk to him about it. Benjy relates with startling clarity and compassion, discussing his work with kirtan and world music at the Oregon State Penitentiary. It was truly moving to hear him talk about relating with these devoted souls who have managed to turn a prison into an ashram... Please enjoy.
(SRD) What piqued my interest was that you are playing at the Oregon State Penitentiary, and that once upon a time, Jerry Garcia Played there too. As both a dead head and a yogi, I was really curious to follow up on this connection. Can you comment on that?
(BW) Totally. Absolutely, I used to be in a band that rehearsed in the barn- Micky Hart's barn so, I actually got to see him a fair bit. I was in this band with Micky, called the Zakir Hussain Rhythm Experience. And then- there were some other, related ensembles that also would sometimes practice, and Jerry and all the guys would come by at different times! That was their primary recording space, and they always had their rigs set up, at all times. But, Jerry, interestingly enough, of all The Dead, was the one who was most interested in what we were doing, with this ensemble, I think. I mean, Micky was certainly engaged in it, directly. There's a certain kind of rock-star mentality that people get into, and even though Jerry was perhaps, arguably, the biggest rock-star of all of The Grateful Dead, he was also the one who seemed to be least on the rock-star trip. He was really accessible. He would look straight at you and take an interest, 'cause you were there. And, I was playing Tabla, and I was doing some of this other stuff, and he was really curious about it. I liked that, a lot.
(SRD) Did he ever mention the prison project to you?
(BW) No, he didn't. I had heard about that because the woman who's a chaplain at Oregon State Penitentiary knew about that and mentioned that. She said 'There are a lot of different people who've played here, including Jerry Garcia.'