...and other thoughts on creating content, being pro-victory/pro-wealth/pro-expansion.
Jason Shen posted up a video, "Further Thoughts on “Winning Isn't Normal"" -
I appreciate the mention in there, and I thought, yeah, let's try this video thing more.
This video includes:
-Quick thanks to Jason
-Pro-victory. Where is the place for the people who want a pro-wealth, pro-ambition, pro-excellence, pro-achieving to hang out?
-...can't please everyone
-When forced to choose, I choose the more absurd way
--When creating, it's very important to keep yourself entertained and engaged in the work. Makes it easier and makes for better quality work.
--Most people are like WAAAAAAY too cautious/conservative
-You will get critics - the worst will be people with the "Righteousness" character trait, which is one of the worst that people have... with some examples.
And more! Check out the video and let me know what you think -
Thanks for that post Sebastian.
There's been a few times over the years where I'd sort of do random searches on google, not quite sure what I was looking for. And yeah, you can find plenty of stuff on things like motivation, goal setting, habits etc, etc, and it's not bad advice. But what was out there seemed to lack a central theme or driving force. It was like the 'how' of it was regurgitated out of any self help book, without any regard for the 'why'.
I was thrilled when I stumbled across your site late last year. A site by and for unashamedly pro-wealth, pro-success and pro-expansion people is really the sort of thing I've been looking for all this time. It's good know there's alot of others out there who have the same underpinning motivation or philosophy towards life.
Thanks for the site Sebastian, what you're doing is excellent.
Righteousness usually means virtuous, doesn't it? Would a better term to describe what you're driving at be self-righteousness? Those that believe in their own virtue, regardless of whether their actions betray that virtue? In any case...
That's a pretty interesting trait, because it really seems to be a few nasty traits rolled into one. The truly self-righteous I've had the pleasure of knowing are generally endowed with pride, usually some envy and wrath, stubbornness, a refusal to think critically, and maybe worst of all, fear. All traits that make people difficult to deal with.
I honestly love talking to self-righteous people, just for the entertainment value, but I don't think I've ever completed a project with a self-righteous person where one of us wasn't unhappy at the end. Any strategies for getting what you want out of self-righteous people?
Hey Sebastian, I realized a long time ago that not everyone wants to grow, not everyone wants to take responsibilities and simply accept the fact that they are in control of their own actions. I'm not sure why that happens but I suspect is a result of how we are grown, which also means that we can change by identifying the bad habits that were taught unconsciously by the society we were raised in. I think that one of those habits that one must cultivate is creating stuff, producing as much as possible. That's the biggest difference between successful people and unsuccessful one that I can think of.
Inspiring stuff! Being bold and direct is great and makes you stand out while everyone are just mumbling soft opinions.
To me, the only exception is when you are at your workplace. I feel that when you're working for a typical company, it's counterproductive to be upfront about your ambitions while you communicate with your colleagues.
BTW, I know that the sound quality might deteriorate, but shooting another "video post" in the middle of the Vietnamese countryside would be nice :)
I'm really thrilled to bring you a guest post by Dan Andrews. He runs a product development company in San Diego, runs the Tropical MBA blog, and the Lifestyle Business Podcast. Some really good insights on there, and he's a really solid guy too. Here's Dan -
Try Losing Some Moral Battles and Winning Some Real Ones
When you are bemoaning the success or victory of others, you are generally seeking to achieve a sort of victory yourself. Let's call this a moral victory. Moral victories are addicting. You can achieve them at will. They magically appear whenever you need a boost.
Moral victories do one thing: they make losers feel like they’ve gotten some victory.
Moral victories are popular with people when they feel like they have no real power to make changes in the world. This makes some sense to me-- building power, wealth, and influence is generally difficult.
It’s been over a week since my last post and I am onsite in a rainy, muddy field. I'm on festival number eight this year and the summer looks like a long stretch of frizzy hair, muddy boots and energy bars.
I was at Hop Farm last week working with the great Festibarrow crew which was tons of fun. I took my brand new go-pro camera and managed to convince a large proportion of the crowd I worked for Channel 4 and was being commissioned to film a documentary on "What makes a Good Festival?". Cue an day of free drinks, moshing at the front to Primal Scream and general festival silliness. As most of this was done in video, here is a bit of a taster of the day but taken while in work mode (ish!) …