I found the PTFAR formula from the Secret of Millionaire Mindset by Harv Eker to be a good model. P = Program, R = Results. What we program from the early parts of our lives matter, i believe. I have lived through times when i checked myself, or my team first, whenever a problem occurred. I found that my team members became frustrated and tended to see "the buck stops here" move to be a disadvantage to the team. This happened within many organizations, i observe until today, as i work with people from many different companies.
But then, i ask myself, there are people who proclaim such programming coming from the Lives before this. To unravel all our past programming, they claim, we have to go back into THAT past as well. Although I believe in that as well, the practical application of this latter fact in my Life is something I never got around to experiment with. However, in the Power of NOW, Eckhart Tolle gave me a wonderful clue to overcome all those past Programming. The only portal we need, so said Tolle, is NOW. And WE ALL HAVE NOW.
I use that a lot these days, whether to help business clients or managers to solve their daily issues, BIG or small. It is not that people's views do not matter. It's just that all those Minds working Overtime can give you plenty of reasons why one small problem is giving someone a headache. I heard of a solution a long time ago from a wise Guru, i.e. Silence has all the answers. I believe in that also. But before Tolle, the answer was not as clear as it has become for me NOW. After coming through the wilderness of Life, I am glad to be able to face the rest of my Life with this enlightened insight. Just sharing.