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Hassles = Opportunities

There's pretty much always some opportunity to be had when a hassle comes up.

The world isn't so simple as to be able to divide people into camps... but I do see roughly three camps of people in how they deal with hassle.

Camp 1: "Oh boo hoo, why does this always happen to me? Life is so hard and unfair..." - I don't have much to say about that one, obviously we all know some people like that, and obviously that attitude is super-destructive. Not much more need be said about it.

Camp 2: "I'm going to fix this ASAP." - Obviously this a lot better, and most of the successful people I know have this attitude. They get things fixed quickly. However, there's also...

Camp 3: "I wonder what opportunity is here..." - Instead of immediately trying to get things back to the status quo, they pause and see if there's an opportunity to be had.

Consolidation of Gains

Where a lot of self-improvement initiatives seem to falter --

Failure to consolidate the gains.

After any period of self-development -- whether that's in health, productivity, attitude, or a particular skill -- there will be a time when you've got a loose collection of new habits that aren't fully happening all the time.

Inevitably, eventually you get caught up in being busy, or get ill, or whatever, and many of the new gains fall over like a house of cards.

It's worth keeping this in mind when trying to make positive changes. From time to time, you need to consolidate the gains.