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Good Comment: Life Manifest

I'd like to bring attention to this ingenious comment by Stefanie Zobus. I'm adding bold on my favorite part -

It’s terribly easy to waste a day. It’s the evening, and I haven’t really done anything useful. I thought of planning the day when I got up, but in the end didn’t. I think books such as that one are really good in that they remind people their treacherous tendencies that take over when one doesn’t pay attention carefully enough. Old habits and all that. It would probably be a good idea to have something that forcefully reminds one of the whole business every day when one gets up, at least when one is still establishing new habits.

Something I thought about in that respect was that it would be useful to write some sort of ‘life manifest.’ Discussing how one wants ones’ life to be, what one wants to do in life, and very importantly: why – because when one doubts and falters, one could read that and be reminded of why one tries, and why one should keep going. You wrote something similar in that you had some post some time ago as to how many books you want to publish until then-and-then, and how much money you want to own at this or that point… which is a really good thing since it encourages and sets goals. There are so many methods and ways helping one to keep going… one just has to find and employ them. I’m afraid, the employing part is difficult. Reading a book like that brings one ‘back to earth’ I suppose, if one really cares. And if one doesn’t care, well, then things are pretty hopeless anyway.

Very smart stuff. I have some things that I live for, but I never thought to look at those when I was feeling demotivated. Great stuff. Stefanie just launched a site at http://stefaniezobus.wordpress.com/ - here's looking forward to good insights from her.

Cascading Mistakes

I woke up unusually early yesterday, and had some time to burn. I sat down to play Chess.

I had a game that I'd basically sewn up, I had the win in hand. Then, I made a mistake. A significant mistake, but I was still in the driver's seat... yet, at that point, I stopped calculating and planning, and I was just moving the pieces around the board. I lost about 10 moves later.

Aggravated as hell, I went to have some breakfast and a coffee, do some light reading, and then fired Chess back up (with some of the aggravation waning). 

A couple games in, I had a similar situation. I was up a bishop on the opponent, but made a blunder in a really complicated mess in the middle of the board. I was going to lose my bishop advantage in two moves regardless.

I stopped, took a whole minute, and looked for what I could do about it. Well, it was a no-good set of moves on my part, but I was able to grab another pawn, tempo, and position. Still wholly in the driver's seat just by focusing and not worrying about the mistake.

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