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Guest Post: Letting Go of Your Ego Enables You to Live Without Limits

Matt Ramos kindly reached out to bring a guest post to us - he's all about exploring and breaking behavior limits, and he talks about that on his blog -http://30vanquish.com

Here's Matt -

Letting Go of Your Ego Enables You to Live Without Limits

“As soon as you try to step outside of the behavioral limits, it gets scary and nasty and ugly real fast.” – Sebastian Marshall

So why should it be so scary, nasty, and ugly?

Doing Stuff You Don't Want To Do

It took me far too long to learn this lesson, and it cost me a considerable amount of money, time, and aggravation.

If there's something you don't want to do, there's just about two good strategies for dealing with it:

Strategy #1: Understand the consequences of not doing it, and decide against doing it the first time you see it.

When you live in China as a foreigner, you're supposed to register at the police station within 24 hours of your arrival. While it's not particularly time-consuming (15 minutes max), it meant breaking up a day to walk to the station, paperwork, etc.

I did research on what would happen to me if I didn't register, and it turns out there's lots of local jurisdiction / judgment on it. The area I was living, a moderately foreigner-populated upscale part of the Chaoyang Business District, turned out to almost always issue a warning instead of fining you. Your registration info wasn't checked when you left the country, and it wasn't necessary for 99% of daily activities.

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